An Important Reminder that One Person's Opinion Is Just That: One Person's Opinion

As gratifying as it is to hear that people find this blog helpful, I suddenly feel compelled to point out that all of this is just my opinion. We play the hand we're dealt to the best of our abilities and some of us hit the jackpot, while others crap out. What works for me, works for me. But that doesn't mean it will necessarily work for you. 

And so while I'm amazed by the care I get from the SCCA; others find the place cold and mechanistic.

But I also liked the ease and intimacy of Group Health, while others find them amateur.

I absolutely detested the 48-hour infusion pump, but I've heard others express their appreciation for the fact that it allows them to get out and about.

Despite the fact that I have a high tolerance for pain and, apparently, a high tolerance for chemotherapy drugs, I've opted out of three chemo regimens because I didn't like the way it made me feel. I know of countless others who were brutalized by chemo, but stayed on it to the bitter end.

There's no right answer with cancer. The choice this person makes might extend their life by a few months, while the same choice made by someone else will have no affect at all. And in many cases, the effects of a given choice are a lot smaller than one might think.

All you can really do through it all is make the best choices for you. Sure, consult with the people whose opinions you value, but remember that it's your disease -- your life -- and the choice is ultimately yours. Choose what's right for you, and tell anyone who tries to convince you that you made the "wrong" choice to go screw themselves.

When it's their turn, they can make their own choice. This one belongs to you. And the mere fact that you made it is enough to render it the right choice. 

Beyond that, what will be will be.